My Husband Is My Maid Paperback – February 9, 2012

Not too long ago I bought Lady Alexa’s book How I Feminized My Husband and I liked it even though she involuntarily feminized her husband. This book by Janice C. Parker was intriguing to me because her husband came to her told her he had submissive desires to cross dress not knowing what her reaction would be. At first she rejected the idea but later embraced the idea that she would be her husbands Mistress and make her husband her maid made for a very erotic story. The part about Merrill ogling Miss Hill his school teacher as a 5th grade student hit home with me. My fantasy began in the 8th grade and continued into my early high school years. In the 10th grade a male friend of mine was paddled by an attractive female teacher who wore tight skirts and glasses. I had fantasies about being spanked by this teacher as she was also my English teacher and I failed her class for not memorizing poetry that she assigned me to do and I did not pay attention in her class. This teacher should have spanked me and even after I graduated I fantasized about her spanking me. Late in life I became a cross dresser and also submissive and desire to be spanked and sought out Dominant Females to make my undeniable desires real. Janice Parker’s statements about submissive cross dressers wearing panties is true it does make them more submissive and makes them feel more feminine. When Janice Parker spanked Merri for ogling his teachers as a 5th grader remembering how they were dressed and the color of their panties and told her she would spank her every week for the next 16 weeks to honor each teacher Merrill had ogled this excited me thinking about being a naughty boy when I was in high school and now I too am a submissive cross dresser. I also met a Hispanic male on a hook up chat line who I confessed my desires to be spanked and enticed him to spank me much like Merrill enticed his wife Janice to be his Mistress and just as Janice decided to give Merrill what he desired my handsome Hispanic lover is now my Dominant Daddy.After read My Husband is my maid in one sitting l will make a date very soon to see my now Dominant lover and dress up very sexy maybe in a French Maid uniform and tell him how naughty I have been, he will tell me to bring hima paddle hair brush or riding crop and to tell him all of the naughty things I do. Then he will take one of the implements and tell me to lay across the bed and lower my panties and he will spank me with the implements really good. Daddy loves spanking his naughty submissive girl.

I do like that this is not s story, but told by a mistress who had the experience first hand and i do love the Way she is treating Merri

After preaching a non sexual, frumpy, ignore her style domination, Janice finds her inner domme and appreciates the domination of the situation. All parties seem to benefit including the reader who gets a more sexy driven story.

I thought this book is best for women who may wish to have a sissy maid of there own as it was more instructive then erotic.But, nonetheless; it was well written.If you wish to read similar books that are more erotic; try the books by m missy.For example; along the same theme is a sissy maid whose wife did not want her husband as a sissy maid; so he went and served a young black Mistress who owned a large old time like plantation house where in addition to the sissy maid, she also had three other submissive males on her staff;  A Sissy Maids Life, A sissy maid missy series, part three  This is a series of several books.Another example would be; a sissy maid to 7 rich college girls in a large private house as his way of paying his way thru college; SISSY MAID IN THE MIRROR: A sissy maid missy sister series, part two  This is also a series of several books.

This book is written from the point of view of Mistress Parker. She describes in great detail why she decided to dominate and feminize her husband when he confessed his long suppressed desire to cross dress. Women who are faced with a similar situation will gain insight into the motivation of many cross dressers and understand why Mistress Parker chose her particular resolution to this issue.The book is well written, informative and full of ingenious ideas of how Mistress Parker exerts and maintains control over her maid, Merri. I enjoy the photos of Merri in her maid uniform scattered throughout the book. Clearly, Mistress Parker has been very successful in creating an obedient and feminine maid.I highly recommend this book to would-be Dommes and the submissive men who serve them.

First let me hurry to say I’m very fond of Ms Parker’s writings and own most of her books. I decided to go back to her first book and bought this thinking it might help my wife with knowing she was not alone in wrapping her head around the idea of taking control and making me her part time maid in erotic role play.I gave it one star because she destroys that possibility with a couple chapters I was appalled and disgusted at and I could never show to her.Under the pretense of explaining how her husbands childhood experiences influenced his own submissiveness, she recounts in great detail a story of how his underage babysitter was routinely spanked in front of 6-10 year olds, some of whom participated, by her Adult cousin. The details are neither erotic or pertinent to how he was influenced. They portrait an incestuous, lesbian dominance of a child (molestation) in front of very young children (abuse) and I’m disgusted she would consider including this story even if true (which I doubt).Shame on you Ms. Parker! I love most of your writings and will overlook this poor choice as it was your first book. You should rewrite or remove those two chspters in subsequent printings of your book. All you had to say was that he witnessed a babysitter who was spanked often and it stirred his emotions to synpathize with her in an erotic way.

The first book was great too but was a bit slow, this one really got my juices flowing. I was looking for something that was real and not fantasy. I have always been intrigued about how a loving wife could do these things to a husband that she loves. The insights she gave was great and i came away with a good understanding of how women think and feel. And I wasn't disappointed, although it went a little bit too much into fashion for me (not being a cross dresser myself). I would definitely read another book to see how their relationship has developed.

ok but very derivative.

What makes this book any different from any of the male fetish fantasy stuff available widely? Because it is written by a lady who starts off, and continues mostly throughout the book, as vanilla. No matter what Janice claims she is not a dominatrix nor is she and this book is not about satisfying a male submissive fantasy. What this book really is about is a woman manipulating her husbands fantasy and taking ownership of it to get the best out of it for her own satisfaction.This doe NOT make this a bad book. Far from it. It is an excellent book about a couple that find the middle ground and compromise that gives them a relationship that both partners are totally satisfied (not something that occurs usually). To really understand this book the reader has to be aware that Janice is not doing anything that her husband is objects to. Actually she is fulfilling his every desire in the fact that she removes ALL control from him (and hence all his responsibility and guilt - which is the aspect that a true submissive seeks to achieve) and uses his desires to fulfill her own fantasies.This book is great for the fact that it shows how a "straight vanilla" partner can cope with her husbands "deviant fetish" (societies labels not mine. Instead of divorcing him the moment he confesses his dark secrets by shifting her perception and embracing the situation she turns it to her advantage.Conclusion: All married women should read this book! If you are a man and this subject appeals to you but your wife is totally uninterested, then you should buy this book as a present for her as it is no nonsense approach that should engage her interest (consider having it gift wrapped and presenting it to her over a candle lit restaurant meal). If you are looking for a bit of male centered pornography then stay well away as you won't find it here.

Not sure but thought some parts of the book were really laboured. Hard to accept that the Femmed male maid really did have to wear Boyfriend ladies to go out as a male. The Bedroom antics also left a bit to be desired. Was this written by a woman or not? Draw your conclusions

Well written, insightful, relevant to those people who live or desire to live this lifestyle. Be careful what you wish for, you might enjoy it.

A good book, fun story of sissy maid training by a Lady who lives like a queen dominatrix while her good sissy does as she is told. A Lady's journey into submissive training a cross dressing husband.