Rider Wintering: How I learned to flourish when life became frozen Hardcover – 6 February 2020

I really enjoyed the power of every sentence

I bought this book to be more in tune with the vibes of winter, to allow myself to winter. And I read so many good reviews. I was expecting practical tips and how-to's.But that is not what this book is. The author tells you her hard winters and the thoughts she had during them; the few things she tried and her findings on those activities. It's basically a journey with her through her winters. No conclusions, no deep insights, just experiences.Overall a fine book, I liked her writing style. But if you are already aware of the fact that this concept exists, it won't be beneficial to read it. It was a cozy read but I won't be reading it again.

Katherine May, par le prisme de sa propre expérience, nous parle des hivers de nos vies, que ce soit le saison qui revient tous les ans, ou les périodes difficiles que nous traversons à un moment ou à un autre...J'ai adoré ce livre. Pourtant, il m'est difficile de dire pourquoi. C'est un texte sans prétention, qui n'a rien d'extraordinaire ou de révolutionnaire en soi et pourtant sa magie opère, la magie des petits riens réconfortants, de la compréhension et des sentiments partagés. Depuis quelques années, j'aime de plus en plus l'hiver, son côté enrobant, le temps qui ralentit, le froid qui nous saisit et j'ai apprécié de retrouver tout cela ici.D'un autre côté, je pourrais le conseiller sans hésiter à tous ceux qui, justement, n'aiment pas cette saison, avec l'espoir que ce texte leur apporte un peu de lumière au coeur de cette période sombre, que ce soit au sens propre ou au sens figuré. Et Katherine May ne se contente pas de nous parler d'elle, son propos est universel, varié, interessant. J'ai été touchée, je me suis reconnue, projetée et je ne pouvais pas le lire à un meilleur moment. Vraiment, c'est amusant de constater qu'un texte si simple puisse être en même temps si puissant, j'ai même fait traîner ma lecture parce que je ne voulais pas le terminer.

What do you think of when you think of winter? Is it a stressful imagining or a peaceful one? Cozy? Uncomfortable? Necessary? With the inevitable approach of colder months, many of our memories or associations with the season - good or bad - are bound to be emphasized by the ongoing COVID pandemic. Author Katherine May invites us to embrace this winter with all that it has to offer. And May doesn't just mean the season, but rather the "fallow period in life when you're cut off from the world, feeling rejected, sidelined, blocked from progress, or cast into the role of the outsider." Sounds fairly familiar at the moment, right? We're struggling for community in ways that many of this generation could never have anticipated. In 'Wintering', May gives us a playbook and philosophy to handle our own personal winters.Beautifully written, May was inspired to share her experiences from her own periods of winter and what she has learned from the radical act of real self-care (i.g. getting enough sleep, being restful, and generally slowing down our routines to combat the workaholic culture). May fearlessly combats the wave of toxic positivity - a newly morphed Instagramable version of bootstrap mentality - that has taken over many of the books that attempt to discuss our reactions to stress. What one can instead expect from 'Wintering' is a guide that is more akin to sharing a coffee with a friend than reading a self-help book.'Wintering' is difficult to place into any one genre. It is the type of British narrative nonfiction I love and is reminiscent in tone and style to the introspection found in Helen Macdonald's H is for Hawk. Like Macdonald, May reminds us that opting out of misery isn't an option. Instead we must embrace it and learn from it.May doesn't just look at weathering personal winters, she turns her pen to the anthropological and the historical as she examines how other cultures and creatures prepare for winter. May seeks out the peace and solace found in nature's winter. Observing everything from the hibernating nests of dormice, wolf dens, and the survival tactics of bees, to the practice of ice swimming, the wonder of the northern lights, and the frigid cold of the Arctic Circle and how those who choose to live there embrace winter. Casting her net wide a little closer to home, May writes about different spiritual practices that welcome winter; such as attending the winter equinox celebration at Stonehenge, discussing the rituals of winter with her Finnish friends, and evaluating the experiences of those who are battling with Seasonal Affective Disorder. May even includes the literary aspect of wintering by weighing the importance of snow in fairy tales, meditating on John Donne's poem "A Nocturnal upon St. Lucy's Day" and Sylvia Plath's "Wintering". May concludes that to welcome winter is to survive it. It is a hopeful and philosophical approach that I found deeply comforting.In a lovely bit of writing, May reveals that in times of distress she likes to travel north. That the cold air feels clean and uncluttered and that she can think straight. I adhere to May's belief that the cold has healing properties. As she writes, "you apply ice to a joint after an awkward fall. Why not do the same to life?" There will always be winters. There will always be periods of sadness and solitude. Therefore, we must prepare for them as best we can. What does this look like in practice? Baking? Soup making? Reading my candlelight in cozy socks? Yes and no. Those things certainly aren't going to hurt your mentality when dealing with winters. However, it is more about recognizing when you need to coil into yourself. Protect yourself. Sleep. Slow down. Grow. Anticipate spring. Feel the turning of the year with gratitude.I was initially drawn to pick up 'Wintering' because winter is my favorite season. Reading May's book was like finally being clued in to the operating tenets of a fan club. May and I speak the same language in our love of winter. She eloquently expresses her appreciation of the season on every page. The solitude of the cold dark. The cleansing power of breathing in the scent of snow. The ritual of lighting a home fire or candles in the long evenings. Of hygge. She is also realistic, blunt, and deeply practical, clearly defining band-aids for confronting winter and actual solutions.If, as you have grown, find that you are sinking into workaholic tendencies, that the highlights of the year (like holidays) pass with little joy and too much stress, if you missing feeling the different seasons and instead seem surprised upon their arrival - this book is for you.If you enjoy cultural studies and nonlinear narrative histories - this book is for you.If you like observant and engaging authors who are honest and not prone to navel-gazing - this book is for you.If you enjoy guided meditations - this book is for you.I would recommend this book to just about everyone. Based on the variety of topics within, the likability of the author, and the intriguing chapter layout, 'Wintering' makes for an engaging read that I already want to reread and buy more copies to giveaway.

Un argomento interessante che di certo tutti noi affrontiamo almeno una volta nella vita, ma scritto nello stile di un diario personale.Sicuramente non uno dei libri che non riesci a mettere giù una volta iniziati.