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Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don’t know how to get started? The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn’t dirty. There’s nothing shameful or wrong about it. Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that’s completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it’s done. Hearing the words, screamed, moaned, whimpered, or whispered just flat out does it for most men. Women like to hear the words and imagine what those words or phrases will mean to them, how their partner will react, or how something will feel, even seconds or milliseconds beforehand, giving their brains time to process the possibilities, thus heightening the sensations. In this guide you will learn 131 tried-and-tested, proven-to-work phrases you can use for getting your partner in the mood, during foreplay, during & after love making. Both for-man & for-woman phrases are included. You will learn many ways to get started talking dirty and how to build it up gradually so you are comfortable & sound confident when you say them. Using correctly they will make your lover addicted to your voice & drive him/her wild in bed. Review: Spicing things up - There's more ways of spicing up your love life than adding expensive toys or lingerie. What if I told you that you could do it tonight and all it would cost you was the cost of this book? There's no tricky positions. There's no risqué activities. All it takes is your mouth, your tongue, and your imagination. Dirty talking has been long under rated. With our social opinions on keeping sex privet, too many people feel uncomfortable saying the words that get our partners worked up. That's where this book comes in. Starting with the basics, how to get started and get your partner involved, and taking you through some sweet nothings to get your engine going, this book is just what you need to get your love life steaming. Don't have time for the physical deed? Tease your partner for later with a quick whisper of what you'd like to do later. Step into the digital age with a steamy text or email. In a long distance situation? The phone can be your best friend to get through those long lonely nights. From the warm up, the foreplay, and on to the deed, there's something to be said for it all. I know I'll be using some of these myself tonight! Review: Great for Beginners - This would be a great book for someone that is on the shy side, has never had phone sex, or talked dirty. It's a good, solid collection of sexy phrases and succinct explanations for why they work. As far as being a beginner's book, I think it falls a little short on how to describe what you're doing, going to do, or want done to you. But if you want to learn how to dirty talk or want liberate your partner into expression, this will suit your needs. It's not for the experienced, though. If you've had a fair share of phone sex, you won't find anything new here. It's a quick read, I finished it in about 15 minutes, but that may be because most of the phrases are things that I have heard and already say. Not much kinky stuff. I only found one phrase in the entire book that I had never heard before (#128). I bought this looking for new ideas, so I was a little disappointed. But I would definitely recommend it to newcomers or those that need a refresher. Update 7/20/15 - Wanted to come back here to share an insight I had about talking dirty. There's nothing worse than a predictable lover. All the hottest things that have ever been said, the things that really get people going or make them climax in an instant are... completely unfiltered, unedited. They are speaking exactly what is felt, direct responses to what the partner responds well to. It's instinctual. There's an element of unpredictability in the heat of the moment, the I-can't-believe-he-just-said-that kind of thrill. So in summary, good dirty talk is hot because 1) it shows your partner how in tune you are to them and 2) it's unpredictable. Don't go by what they found hot last time, go by what they moan to this time. Above all else, go by how enthusiastically your partner responds to your words and DON'T FILTER YOURSELF. Say exactly what you think in the tone you thought it in. If your partner likes teddy bears, talk teddy bears. When they respond well to a certain idea, take the idea a step further. If they don't respond as enthusiastically, don't sweat it, just take it back a step and go in a different direction. Let your instincts take over. I think this concept is applicable to good sex in general.
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| Customer Reviews | 3.6 out of 5 stars 1,513 Reviews |
L**S
Spicing things up
There's more ways of spicing up your love life than adding expensive toys or lingerie. What if I told you that you could do it tonight and all it would cost you was the cost of this book? There's no tricky positions. There's no risqué activities. All it takes is your mouth, your tongue, and your imagination. Dirty talking has been long under rated. With our social opinions on keeping sex privet, too many people feel uncomfortable saying the words that get our partners worked up. That's where this book comes in. Starting with the basics, how to get started and get your partner involved, and taking you through some sweet nothings to get your engine going, this book is just what you need to get your love life steaming. Don't have time for the physical deed? Tease your partner for later with a quick whisper of what you'd like to do later. Step into the digital age with a steamy text or email. In a long distance situation? The phone can be your best friend to get through those long lonely nights. From the warm up, the foreplay, and on to the deed, there's something to be said for it all. I know I'll be using some of these myself tonight!
A**E
Great for Beginners
This would be a great book for someone that is on the shy side, has never had phone sex, or talked dirty. It's a good, solid collection of sexy phrases and succinct explanations for why they work. As far as being a beginner's book, I think it falls a little short on how to describe what you're doing, going to do, or want done to you. But if you want to learn how to dirty talk or want liberate your partner into expression, this will suit your needs. It's not for the experienced, though. If you've had a fair share of phone sex, you won't find anything new here. It's a quick read, I finished it in about 15 minutes, but that may be because most of the phrases are things that I have heard and already say. Not much kinky stuff. I only found one phrase in the entire book that I had never heard before (#128). I bought this looking for new ideas, so I was a little disappointed. But I would definitely recommend it to newcomers or those that need a refresher. Update 7/20/15 - Wanted to come back here to share an insight I had about talking dirty. There's nothing worse than a predictable lover. All the hottest things that have ever been said, the things that really get people going or make them climax in an instant are... completely unfiltered, unedited. They are speaking exactly what is felt, direct responses to what the partner responds well to. It's instinctual. There's an element of unpredictability in the heat of the moment, the I-can't-believe-he-just-said-that kind of thrill. So in summary, good dirty talk is hot because 1) it shows your partner how in tune you are to them and 2) it's unpredictable. Don't go by what they found hot last time, go by what they moan to this time. Above all else, go by how enthusiastically your partner responds to your words and DON'T FILTER YOURSELF. Say exactly what you think in the tone you thought it in. If your partner likes teddy bears, talk teddy bears. When they respond well to a certain idea, take the idea a step further. If they don't respond as enthusiastically, don't sweat it, just take it back a step and go in a different direction. Let your instincts take over. I think this concept is applicable to good sex in general.
C**A
It's pretty lame book for those of you who already know ...
It's pretty lame book for those of you who already know some things to say. I bought this to see if it could give me extra ideas. But nothing really you cant imagine by watching porn. Honestly, if you feel uncomfortable talking dirty-which was me once. I'm gradually getting there but don't be scared to call yourself dirty or vulgar names. In the bed room it's supposed to be fun and playful. The best way so far for me was gradually say naughty things. Role play and wear a sexy outfit helps me to forget who I am and feel confident is the most important thing. Good luck all.
W**M
it is tame and basic but it's a great start
I agree with the lower rating comments that this is just basic phrases that you probably already use but the value of this book is in the explanations and simple ideas you can build upon. The book uses the simple terms at the right moment that will make your sex life better when used at a different time.. Phrases like "use me" and " lick me" have their average uses. They also have a use at a time when that are not expected that can really turn on your partner.
M**A
Helpful and offers great insight!
This book attempts to explain the importance of talking dirty with your partner, and how you shouldn’t be ashamed of it. There are reasons mentioned why you should try talking sexy to your partner, as well as ideas on how to start incorporating it into your routine. The most helpful part of the book are the lines that are given as examples you can use, which number over 100, are pretty easy to utilize, cover a wide range of topics and situations, and come with extra pointers. I would recommend this book to anyone that wants a little help spicing up their life in the bedroom, and doesn’t know where to start.
J**S
Dirty Talk Doesn't Have to Be Filthy
If after reading this book doesn't get you aroused, I don't know what can. Some of the examples in here are surely erotic, but I wouldn't feel comfortable saying half of the stuff found in this book to my wife. I found some of the content offensive, vulgar, and disrespectful. I think there are "clean" ways to arouse your spouse with words that doesn't make them feel "whoreish" and unclean. I don't believe it takes profanity and vulgarity to produce arousal. My advice for the curious: read the examples and modify them to your own style that you believe your spouse would be positively affected by. Dirty talk doesn't have to be "filthy".
K**E
Surprisingly helpful!
I bought this book because my husband works long hours, and by the time we get done working, have dinner, get the kids into bed, and clean up, we’re both exhausted. I thought introducing a little dirty talk into our day might keep us both excited enough that we could get around the exhausted parent part of our day, enough to become excited lovers again. When I first read the book, I thought “there is no way I’m going to be able to do this!” However, I gave it a chance, and started off exactly how the author suggests. I was thrilled with the results, and so was my husband. It was definitely a great purchase for us, and I’m happy to say that I manage to whisper a few sweet nothings into my husband’s ear before he leaves for work, and it keeps him anticipating our evenings together much more than he did in the past!
J**S
Great book that helped my marriage!!
I liked this book and found it very helpful and insightful. I tend to be shy with dirty talk and my husband is always complaining that he wishes I would say more sexy things. It’s just not natural to me to talk dirty but I have realized, after reading this book, that it is a hugely important thing to do. It is a simple thing that I can do to satisfy him and make him feel sexy and wanted.
V**E
Very good examples
I'm satisfied with the examples from this book. It's better to re-read them though, because most of them you can forget after a while :) Worth reading
S**N
Sympa et pratique
Des exemples de phrases faciles à utiliser, tout pour une ambiance détendue et sexy, excellent petit livre que je recommande
A**R
Three Stars
OK
T**A
Fast delivery and definitely what you expect!
Just received this in the mail today and my husband and I are excited to both learn from this book to spice up our sex life!
M**R
Five Stars
Great reading!!
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