The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

This book was powerful!I am not usually into the self-help genre but a recent convo with my husband made me feel the need to dig deeper and invest far more in our relationship. At a loss as to how to begin, I turned to some books.I loved how direct and simple the advice was and how easy to apply, immediately.I'm a bit surprised by the nature of the few bad reviews. If the info in this book was "common sense" and old news then those reviewers must have some incredible relationships with the people in their lives, because if everyone was doing the work in this book, human interaction would be TOTALLY different.Another common complaint was that i read was that this book did not satisfy the needs of Christians in a relationship. I think I know the sections they are talking about. As a conservative, religious person myself, there were a couple of suggestions I might skip. However, the principles and underlying points the authors make still stand. For example, If we are being real with ourselves, your husband, your wife might see someone else they find attractive, you might be jealous. You can live with those emotions or transform them and your experience.I really liked that the authors addressed the "two to tango" idea in a new way. Sure, relationships take two but if you focus on you and doing your part and being responsible for your insecurities and fears, then either you will inspire your partner to improve or you will get the most out of that relationship and move on to something better when the time is right. I don't think this idea undermines those who want to be in a committed relationship. However, the reality sometimes relationships and/or marriages don't work out, because its not serving anyone involved. This book made the possibility of relationships ending less dire, not because it took commitment lightly, but because the authors ask the reader to look at one's state of mind and release resentments that aren't serving you in anyway.If you are looking to work on yourself, And make some fundamental changes regarding how you see yourself and interact with others, you will really benefit from this book.

This was, unfortunately, a rubbish book.Read a chapter or two before you consider buying it. I pulled out after two, but that was only because my partly had sweetly picked this book out for us to read together because of its title and blurb.The authors are overconfident and thoughtless in their prescriptions in a way that is always a bad sign. Every technique they use is presented as though it works always for everyone and has no possible negative consequences.Such Polyannaish promises regarding something as heterogeneously fraught as human relationships require their profferer be either dim or dishonest.

This book found its way into my life quite unexpectedly, yet undoubtedly at the best time it could have. I confess, inspirational “self help” books are not my usual read, so I was a little apprehensive, but after going through a divorce and dating again, I thought why not give it a try? And I am so happy that I did! As past reviewers have said, this book isn’t just for romantic relationships – you can use these tools in all relationships, which is of great benefit.The writing style is very easy to read, almost as if a good friend is giving you advice, with real-life examples. It feels like Mali and Joe are on your side; they really want to share their wisdom, and they know what they are talking about. As I read along, I felt like I kept getting ah-ha moments. It all made sense! Why hadn’t I thought of things this way before?The best part of this book is that it isn’t telling you the person you are with isn’t your soulmate – it guides you along so that you can make the changes needed to have the ultimate soulmate experience with that individual even if you’ve already been together for years. You learn how to appreciate the person you are with as a “guest in your life.”The chapter on jealousy was also incredibly helpful for me. I have always had a jealous side, and I can see how it has affected all of my romantic relationships (and not in a good way).One of the most helpful suggestions for me was to imagine my life without my partner. Yes, it sounds morbid and depressing, but I have already used this exercise repeatedly. It makes some fights seem downright silly and insignificant in the bigger picture. I’ve found a new way to let go of things that would make me crazy in the past.I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to put down the foundation for a real, healthy, loving relationship, and one that will last a lifetime. This book couldn’t have come into my life at a better time!

I think this book gives some good advice to keep existing relationships alive and exciting and how to avoid unnecessary and unhelpful fights. In particular, negative feelings (e.g. jealousy, envy, etc.) in relationships are caused by our own beliefs in most cases and are not the result of someone else’s behaviours. Also, one should not enter into relationship and have expectations or see the significant other as someone who completes us. It is better to turn expectations into invitations and accept it if the other person denies it. A partner should be seen as a guest in our life whom we appreciate.A lot of the advice given in this book can also be found in texts about mindfulness. Examples are, that one should accept and appreciate the present rather than dwelling in the past or worrying about the future. You should accept yourself and replace negative thoughts with more positive ones.This is a typical feed good book and it definitely offers some useful advice to improve relationships. But as usual, putting the theory into practice takes some effort and is not that easy.

This book is so much more than a "how to" guide for couples committed to (or seeking) a happier romantic relationship. While the main focus is on how to fully connect with your signficant other, the insights and wisdom within this book offer a much broader scope.After all, *every* relationship we have (including the one with self) is about `connection', to one degree or another. Yet most of the time we react from old patterns, based on core beliefs that are flawed, outdated, and/or perhaps even harmful.What if you could change your experience so that you approached every conversation with openness - and a willingness to learn something from it? What if you could live more synchronistically, more in tune with yourself and what's at the heart of your relationships? What if you could learn to feel full acceptance for each person you interact with - and yourself?It is possible to feel a profound and lasting connection to those you love, but it does take work!There is real wisdom in this book ... a real understanding of what it takes to keep a relationship vibrant and alive, exciting and expanding, and filled with joy and deep connection. Of course Mali and Joe understand that not all soulmate connections need be romantic. Speaking from my own experience, there can be just as much learning, transformation, and reward in a non-romantic connection, especially if there is a special context for it.Mali and Joe deliver their guidance, insights, and suggestions in a clear, easy-to-read narrative, as though they're holding your hand as you read the words. Some of the ideas may be ones you already know. Some may be stretching your "comfort zone expansion" too far. Others will resonate at the deepest level, and you will discover a chance to transform your beliefs and your perspectives, to be fully present in your relationships, and to see the world in a new way. You will become someone who can *be* a soulmate, and as you consciously work on and understand your relationships, you may find that life is a richer experience as a result.This fits nicely with where I am right now - dealing with my limitations and "stuff" with the support, trust, and love of those who are truly committed to being there for me (and I with them/vice versa). Soulmate relationships are such a special gift - with this book, you may find ways to honour and cherish them even more deeply than you do now.

This was a great book on relationships. However I would say that you have to have done quite a bit of self development in order to feel like you can implement the ideas.

I have read a few 'self-help' guides before and unlike them, this is a very personable and approachable book that allows you to improve your relationship with your partner and yourself.Reading the book you realise how harmful certain things are to your relationship that you do, such as holding on to expectations and negative energy. I was surprised to find that I ticked several boxes from the conventional relationship model!It sets realistic, achievable goals with practises that can be used not only for your soul mate but can be incorporated into other relationships too, and also helps to develop yourself and your own well being.It has a good use of real life examples which makes the book easier to relate to and understand. It is a practical positive way to change behaviours.A great book, definitely recommend it and I will be trying out the techniques and practises in the future.

I have been amassed by this book. Is the first of it's kind that I read, sometimes I was a bit surprised how in some topics it always come back to your self because many of the things we carry into our relationships has to do more with us than with our partner. Sometimes I was surprised on the amount of trust and open mind that this book has in some matters. I think is also a book you can read many times, and it will feel different depending on the relationship you are in.It also says you can read it if you are single and trust me I think you can, then you will be more "prepared" to your next relationship specially if you are coming out of a bad one.

I have to say most self-help books are a bit of a hit and miss, thankfully this one is right on the ball, giving many examples with practical advice on not only how relationship's work, but also on one's self.After reading this book there is no doubt this book has the potential to help grow any relationship while at the same time it somehow gives you a better outlook on life and helps you more receptive to other peoples thoughts and feelingsPut this one on your reading list

This book had lots of good ideas of how to develop your own self as well as relationships with others. If one reflects on the suggested exercises and puts them into practice ,then one 's life would become much more mello!

This book is like a wise companion - full of sound, practical advice. It's a guide not just to great relationships but also to a fulfilling way of life. With plenty of insights and empowering suggestions, it encourages looking inward in order to effect outward change. I'm left with a sense of big possibility - inspired, hopeful and keen to implement the practices, attitudes and communication skills the Soulmate Experience recommends. Free from magical thinking and alleged 'silver bullets', this book has given me an unprecedented sense of agency and I'm so grateful.

I recently purchased The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships. I found myself struggling to put it down. I highlighted so many sections that applied to me. I was amazed at how many times while reading this book I thought the authors Mali Apple and Joe Dunn had written it specifically for me and my current situation. It talked about mindset and self esteem and how it is key to having a healthy and functioning relationship. This book is written with an incredible amount of insight about the nature of relationships.I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It's brilliant and, if you allow, it can serve as a roadmap to ensuring you surround yourself in healthy relationships that are authentic.

I myself am a writer of fiction, so I rarely read self help style books. But something really attracted me to this one. I think it was the straight forward, no nonsense way it is written and the fact that this subject is at the core of most of us and the fact that I also write romance. After all, who does not dream of finding their perfect partner/soul mate, one day? Surely that's why we are here.I really don't know if I will meet my ideal partner so soon, after reading The Soul Mate Experience, but I definitely feel more ready for it than I have at any other time and that is the point of this book: to help us to be better at relationships and behave in a more constructive manner when we are actually in one, making it much more likely that we don't screw it up with the potential soul mates who are out there. Personally, I believe there could be many...I especially liked the chapters on reducing personal baggage and dragging it into out new relationships. I think we've all been guilty of this, plenty of times and I've definitely felt other partners do it with me. So I shall be recommending this book to them.The chapter on Transforming the Energy of Jealousy was also very useful and tells us how we can learn to channel this energy through love instead of fear. This part may take some practice for many though... but as a goal state that we should aim towards it is spot on. I hope to fully get to this point one day. There is still work to be done myself and indeed in all of us and this book points a definite way forward.This a truly great read, written in a very engaging style, with great advice on a deep psychological and philosophical level so that we can first learn to love ourselves. Only then will we be ready for our soul mate. The Soul Mate Experience teaches us to break free of limiting beliefs and become the person we were always meant to be, free from neediness and worthy of true love.Definitely recommended.Daniel Kenyon: Author of The Savage Heart of Palermo.

When we search someone for the whole life, we believe everything is just like in a movie. But reality is different. We are different. This book perfectly explains aho we can search love starting from us, deep inside.I've found a lot of sentences in which I reflect myself. I couldn't imagine that it could happen with a book!This is an incredible trip!!

Very very good book for self improvement when single and mutual improvement when couple. Highly recommended. Don't see the price just go with it and you ll come out as a better human being if you work on all exercises given in this book. Trust me it's best book on relationships I read...

This easy to read and easy to implement book really helped me heal and get past some issues. Unlike other self help books, the steps were easy to implement and applicable. It's advice that can apply to everyday situations and becomes a way of thinking. It really did change my life! I'll refer back to it time and again I'm sure!

Amazing book, it really helps in giving you a more broad vision of what means to be in a couple or married (or even single). It will help you in unexpected ways and give a whole new perspective.

I thought it would be maybe a "esoteric book" but not at all, it's a really important book which explain how to be the best you can YOURSELF to be able to have a beautiful and safe relationship .