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title: "The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World"
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# Empowerment Theme Audio Experience Insightful Content The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World

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## Summary

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- **What is this?** The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World
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## Key Features

- • **Expert Narration:** Engaging storytelling by a renowned author.
- • **Accessible Format:** Perfect for on-the-go inspiration and reflection.
- • **Cultural Relevance:** Addresses contemporary LGBTQ+ issues with depth.
- • **Community Connection:** Join a movement of understanding and acceptance.
- • **Transformative Listening:** Dive into a journey of self-discovery and resilience.

## Overview

The Velvet Rage Audio CD offers a powerful exploration of the challenges faced by gay men growing up in a predominantly straight society. Narrated by the author, this compelling audio experience provides insights into overcoming adversity and embracing one's true self, making it a must-have for anyone seeking empowerment and understanding.

## Description

The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World [Downs, Alan] on desertcart.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World

Review: Great book for LGBTQ folks - This book is an excellent read for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community. It offers valuable insights into how childhood trauma and shame can shape adult life. The author provides thoughtful guidance on understanding and processing these experiences, offering ways to confront shame and grow toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. Overall, it is a truly impactful and highly recommended book.
Review: Must read for gay men EVERYWHERE - Ive seen recommendations for this book everywhere and just figured one day ill get around to reading it. Boy was i doing myself a disservice! This book literally described so many things that have happened and are happening in my life as a gay man. This book,as detailed early on, is not exclusively for gay men but is a like a beacon for them specifically. If you choose to read Velvet Rage enjoy the experience!

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #4 in LGBTQ+ Demographic Studies #291 in Emotional Mental Health #62,246 in Books on CD |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 4,214 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great book for LGBTQ folks
*by A***R on January 20, 2026*

This book is an excellent read for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community. It offers valuable insights into how childhood trauma and shame can shape adult life. The author provides thoughtful guidance on understanding and processing these experiences, offering ways to confront shame and grow toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. Overall, it is a truly impactful and highly recommended book.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Must read for gay men EVERYWHERE
*by T***E on December 31, 2025*

Ive seen recommendations for this book everywhere and just figured one day ill get around to reading it. Boy was i doing myself a disservice! This book literally described so many things that have happened and are happening in my life as a gay man. This book,as detailed early on, is not exclusively for gay men but is a like a beacon for them specifically. If you choose to read Velvet Rage enjoy the experience!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Powerful experience - Warm, Honest, and Transformative
*by L***M on July 8, 2025*

I started reading this book, but some parts were so emotionally moving that I switched to the audiobook—which I highly recommend. Hearing the author's voice felt like talking to a compassionate friend. I'm grateful for this book and plan to reread it soon. (After this book, I read "Straight Jacket" by Matthew Todd, and I recommend reading it as well, especially if you're dealing with addictions, whether to substances, shopping or seeking external validation.) At first, I wasn’t sure some of the recommended practices made sense. But the book inspired me to explore DBT further, and through that, I was able to better understand these practices and saw their real-life value. Before this book, I believed that I'm gay, people are now mostly okay with it where I live (Warsaw, Poland) and end of story. I then understood that there's still a bit story there that I need (and want) to explore.

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*Last updated: 2026-02-08*